tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post110625225929096909..comments2023-11-02T10:31:42.427-04:00Comments on Donna Hill Online: How Far is Too Far to Promote Your Book??Donna Hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02307897093711015724noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1137963145396782912006-01-22T15:52:00.000-05:002006-01-22T15:52:00.000-05:00Hi Donna, you have a nice blog. Today I was out bl...Hi Donna, you have a nice blog. Today I was out blog surfing looking for detailed info on <A HREF="http://www.wedding-planning-services.com" REL="nofollow">planning african american wedding</A> when I found your page. Your site is not an exact match but it did catch my interest. I am going to add you to my favorite list of blogs for future reading and reference. 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Thanks for the post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1133315634849671842005-11-29T20:53:00.000-05:002005-11-29T20:53:00.000-05:00Hi Donna, you have a nice blog. Today I was out bl...Hi Donna, you have a nice blog. Today I was out blog surfing looking for detailed info on <A HREF="http://www.wedding-planning-services.com" REL="nofollow">planning a wedding on a small budget</A> when I found your page. Your site is not an exact match but it did catch my interest. I am going to add you to my favorite list of blogs for future reading and reference. Should you ever need information on planning a wedding on a small budget then drop by the site above and check it out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1119310751287041912005-06-20T19:39:00.000-04:002005-06-20T19:39:00.000-04:00Where do I start? First let me say that I am 1 of ...Where do I start? First let me say that I am 1 of the 10 wives to be married on sept 29. I just want to say everyone is intitled to their oppinion. On that note, here is mine....I have read about 100 different comments about this wonderful event and 99 of them were bad...For some reason everyone is under the impression that Maryann got together with 10 baby mama's, the F.B.I, NYPD and we set out on a search for our childrens father... Each one of the couples have been together atleast 5yrs, Living "together" and raising our children "together"... We have been living as families, not raising our children alone looking for their daddy.. Their Daddy's have been there from the start..This is about marriage, a union in the eyes of god, not locate my baby daddy so i can marry him...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1116866053500797452005-05-23T12:34:00.000-04:002005-05-23T12:34:00.000-04:00I am happy to say that I am one of the winning cou...I am happy to say that I am one of the winning couples set to be Married during the 'Marry Your Baby Daddy Day' event. It is amazing to look at some of the views that is posted on this website. As a society we tend to look at the negative in things instead of try to help support an idea that was not thought of by oneself. Is Maryann promoting her upcoming book release? Yes. At the same time she is making Ten very grateful couples dream come true. Hosting a wedding event that includes such amenities, if we were to have planed ourselves would not be able to afford.<BR/><BR/>Both my husband-to-be and myself are College Graduates who have been in a Healthy, Loving relationship for over several years with two children. This event sparked something in my partner that gave him the confirmation that he was ready to get married. It gives a chance to show BLACK Families in a Positive light. Completing the family circle with the Union of Marriage. The key element that I think is truly being missed by many of the readers is that Maryann had a vision to help promote marriage in the black community, using couples that have a strong family unit, with a genuine bond that has the possibility of making it through this whole process with a successful and healthy marriage.<BR/><BR/>I know this is all a matter of personal opinion. I just feel if you do not have anything nice to say, it is sometimes better not to say anything at all. Well wishers is what is needed to allow for the Best possible outcome for this upcoming event.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1107881391282252032005-02-08T11:49:00.000-05:002005-02-08T11:49:00.000-05:00We all agree that as a promotion this makes us cri...We all agree that as a promotion this makes us cringe. But marketing is just that, tacky or not it has no color.<br />People of every ethnicity have cultural laundry we'd rather not have aired on a national stage. <br /> <br />The author has, like many others, found a stereotype to exploit, and it looks like she is going to mine it for all it's worth. It is unfortunate that she couldn't be "bigger" about this, but face it: if it wasn't she, it would have been someone else (say FOX or UPN) who recognizes the money making potential of nightime soap called "Baby Mama Drama" or a reality series called "Who's Your Daddy". Oh wait, haven't they already done that - in white.<br /><br />As soon as WE stop allowing ourselves and our situations to be exploited for <br />lowest-common-denominator entertainment, the interest WILL die away, and the marketers will be forced to go back to creativity.<br /><br />SamanthaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106583579271394332005-01-24T11:19:00.000-05:002005-01-24T11:19:00.000-05:00I feel this is yet another marketing ploy by the p...I feel this is yet another marketing ploy by the publishing houses to degrade African Americans. The societal stigma has already been cast upon us and now it will be nationally displayed. I am quite disappointed by Ms. Reid as I feel she has sold her soul to the devil for the almighty dollar. A more positive marketing campaign could have been devised to promote her work but I guess when your readship is not what you had hoped it would be after 2 novels then.....<br /><br />The little respect that she might have gained from her literary counterparts is surely lost now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106528552200104962005-01-23T20:02:00.000-05:002005-01-23T20:02:00.000-05:00I read the original promotional email and my first...I read the original promotional email and my first thought was is she kidding. Then I read it understood the concept. And though I am still up in the air on how I feel about it. (Ask me tomorrow and my opinion may change) I passed the information on. In the end this will lead to more sales and this is the promotion this author wants out there. In the end I am all about support the author in the forum they choose. Who knows maybe someone will gain something from this campaign. If nothing else she should she some decent sales.DDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10064188495247449149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106457309498771232005-01-23T00:15:00.000-05:002005-01-23T00:15:00.000-05:00Once upon a time when the world of publishing was ...Once upon a time when the world of publishing was not so concerned with the profit and loss of a given book, there was no need for such stunts. Books and careers were nurtured, brought along to maturity, and seasoned to craftsmanship and respectability. Something happened to publishing as it has to the American arts and movies and other cultural pillars which this society has cheapened to vulgarity and perversity. Everything has gone the way of tabloids, reality shows, and Paris Hilton. And unfortunately, we are none the better for it. That's why when we as consumers see the artistry and special qualities of something extraordinary, we must salute it and give it our support. Those rare jewels are going to be much rarer if those wizards of accounting and Wall Street have their way.<br /><br />Seek out the rarities. Support them so we can beat back the mediocre and mundune.<br /><br />Cole RileyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106450990564680002005-01-22T22:29:00.000-05:002005-01-22T22:29:00.000-05:00One comment, How tacky can one be. Is she trying ...One comment, How tacky can one be. Is she trying to say marry someone if you cannot stand them. <br /><br />I think this is beyond the pale. YUKAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106441855370511542005-01-22T19:57:00.000-05:002005-01-22T19:57:00.000-05:00I sit here and I read the article and I realize th...I sit here and I read the article and I realize that this is a idea that has been used by radio stations as a matter of fact the station that I work for in Charleston SC has a thing they do called Day of Love and they marry twenty five couples and its amazing to see that alot of the couples have stayed married and its going on the fifth year but to do it involving baby mammas and daddys I think thats to much a baby shouldn't be the reason someone marries it has to be loved and respect there if that's not there than nothing can ever become.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17560819022101447161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106284944566383062005-01-21T00:22:00.000-05:002005-01-21T00:22:00.000-05:00I must say, this is taking promotion a bit far. I...I must say, this is taking promotion a bit far. It is embarrassing and as another comment said "tacky." It is apparent that the book market is flooded with books and that authors want to find some way to "stand out" and be noticed. However, your book, just as your promotional tactics are a reflection of you. She could have just as easily started a mentoring group or support group for young adults or single parents rather that fill her pockets on the backs of others. Pretty shameful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106284830370609192005-01-21T00:20:00.000-05:002005-01-21T00:20:00.000-05:00This book promotion is in very bad taste. Some wom...This book promotion is in very bad taste. Some women are not ready to be wives and some men are not ready to be husbands. Simple as that. Why pressure them if they are not ready? You more than likely will be putting children into a worse situation by having a couple get married when neither party is ready for this type of serious committment.<br /><br />The sad part about this promotion is that the tv media might look at this as the basis for a new reality tv show. Thereby, creating another avenue to negatively exploit African Americans.<br /><br />Christine Battle-EllingtonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106279579029040382005-01-20T22:52:00.000-05:002005-01-20T22:52:00.000-05:00This author is getting a lot of publicity. I'm se...This author is getting a lot of publicity. I'm seeing write-ups featuring her and her book in some major media. If getting hype for her book was her primary aim, the effort has been successful so far. <br /><br />But "Marry Your Baby Daddy" seems somewhat degrading to young blacks. The message is that if you throw money and exposure to blacks who have children out of wedlock--that's all it takes for them to make an effort to create a family unit. It's not that simple at all. <br /><br />I'm sure white corporations will donate money (probably with a snigger behind their hands) and the hype and hoopla could certainly be there. <br /><br />But the event may leave a bad taste in the mouth of thoughtful people. Authors need to remember that for long-run success, they don't only need to promote their next book, they promote themselves and their image. <br /><br />And taking young unwed blacks with children out of the inner city projects one day for a babydaddy and babymama mass wedding spectacle for white folks is kinda tacky.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106276961662681052005-01-20T22:09:00.000-05:002005-01-20T22:09:00.000-05:00at first glance, this sounds like a good thing, bu...at first glance, this sounds like a good thing, but after a little thought its not. Why must a woman and a man marry because they have a child together? They may have realized that a commited relationship won't work for them, however much they love their child. And, what about those men and women who have more than one baby mama or daddy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106274702407563732005-01-20T21:31:00.000-05:002005-01-20T21:31:00.000-05:00I am a demographer with a specialty in the determi...I am a demographer with a specialty in the determinants and consequences of fertility trends WORLD WIDE. For over twenty years I ran the United Nations research program in this field.Official data from the United States National Office of Vital Statistics definitely do not show that 70 percent of black couples/families are not legally married. This woman is an oportunist and very disingenuous one at that. She would besmirch African Americans as a people in order to promote a book that she obviously thinks won't stand on its own merits. I find this very sad, indeed. Gwynne ForsterGwynnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04805144600714927551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9909313.post-1106263619617240532005-01-20T18:26:00.000-05:002005-01-20T18:26:00.000-05:00The author should really re-think what she's tryin...The author should really re-think what she's trying to do. People shouldn't be coaxed into marriage for any reason. Marriage alone does not guarantee that a child will be provided with the what he/she needs to be a healthy minded and productive person. It's more about the parents themselves and the values they instill in their child moreso than whether or not the parents are married. Besides, who's to say that these promotion-inspired marriages will last past the ceremony? If the author REALLY wanted to make a positive contribution to the African American community, maybe she should look into starting or funding programs that teach young men and women to respect themselves and their children by waiting until the proper foundations have been set before having sexual relationships and starting families.<br />-Janan SaadiqAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com